As a divorce lawyer, I see a types of problems which lead to divorce
Divorce is a difficult and heartbreaking decision and is usually not reached until all other options have been exhausted. However, you can save your marriage even after a divorce is filed if you are willing to acknowledge and address the problems that lead to the divorce in the first place.
Here are some tips from an experienced divorce professional:
You might go through the motions - your mouth opens and you speak. But, communication is more than talking. Respectful and constructive communication is key. Some people shut down or don't make an effort to speak at all. Some spouses don't stop talking but don't really say anything.