Now that I have your attention I would like to talk about the difference between what floats men and women's boats
I have this theory that women don't have enough passion in their life (and I'm not talking about the bedroom). When men are boys they have passion for their mates, footy, cricket, BMX bikes, motorbikes, surfing, you name it, they have a passion for it. When women are girls they have Barbie, horses, netball etc.
As we all grow up, traditionally for men, their passions stay the same and they add girls, yippee. Girls on the other hand traditionally drop their passion and boys become their main focus, and this doesn't change. Boys integrate girls into their lives, girls make boys their life. When a relationship fails boys still have their passions, girls have to find a new passion, until the next guy comes along.